We are trying to be "perfect", but for what? for whom?why?what is the definition of PERFECT? It means one thing to 1 person other thing to other? Why do we have to struggle so that someone will accept us?sp the SOCIETY?Simple answer-EGO- .We want everyone to boost our ego.. we all want to feel SUPERIOR to the other..(such a silly thought it is)and to feed itself,ego makes us stoop to lowest level.we are always taught,we are always compared right from the childhood till we die. Has anyone ever noticed that in the process of "fitting into the society", one becomes so non accepting to his own self?Criticizing your self, disrespecting..gosh! so many words.. Its pity to see people not accepting the way they are..Most of the times we are forced to do things which we dont like?coz we want everyone to accept us,Whts d need for you to be accepted by others?They are never going to be satisfied with the change you make for them,you bet they will hardly even notice it .. Live with the belief that all are equal and you will never have any need to please anyone. Just a question-HAVE WE EVER ACCEPTED OURSELF? Have we ever loved our ownself tht we want others to love us? NO.. thts d answer I swear you will get. . Accept yourself the way you are.. Love yourself as you would love anyone else.
Everyone wants everyone to change,their partners, parents, friends..everyone, why cant people just accpet each other the way they are, most of the disappointments/relationship break ups that happens is due to neglecting the others freedom and imposing your own ideologies on them. Just imagine when you love someone for who they are and you love yourself the way you are,how much less pain you will cause yrself and the other person//Just love them for who they are even if you have thousands of differences,doesnt matter.Acceptance is very strong emotion.like love,it can over come anything.
Start with yourself:Get up every morning look into the mirror and say " no matter who says what to me/about me , I accept myself , I love myself" and thn see d difference..Once you start accepting yourself others will also act in different manner wid you.. As all is linked..
